As a kid, I used to be mesmerised by the water. How flexible and fluid and adaptable water can be. It takes on any shape and form, and can transform from liquids to solids and gases. It was the personification of change, yet retaining an aura of elegance about it.
I used to think my personality element was water — quick to adapt, aloof, carefree — but then I grow up and realised my fascination with water, was because it was the polar opposite of my inner self: Fire
Fire, the element of passion and anger and love and so much more, defines me better than water does. I am hot-headed. I get into arguments and I don’t like losing. I am passionate in whatever I do and whatever I pursue. I am brilliant in mind, thoughts and ideas sparking at even the oddest of times. Fire, is not a constant element. Like water, it can change and can adapt. When you thought the wind would blow it out, it just grows stronger and hotter. It is the element of resilience. “Keep the fire going, one day it will lift you up,” I thought to myself while watching them inflate hot air balloons two weekends ago.
It’s not all good though. Nothing is ever perfect, right? Fire is also a force of destruction. It both creates and destroys. Perhaps that is why in various mythological theories gods wield fire as celestial weapons or sources of energy, or why in the Bible it’s said that God’s language was delivered by tongues of fire, and the list goes on. It is a source of power.
I am fire, and my companion shall be water. Different yet essential for life. Maybe that’s why I am so fascinated and mystified by the water and why I keep coming back to it.
It’s both funny and confusing; How I am losing my mind, yet feeling my old self again.
I find myself mulling over the petty things, as I always do. But this time I don’t let any of it bother me or the activities I do anymore. When I am involved in an event, performance or any activity in my life, I have conditioned myself to be detached from heart and emotion, relying solely on rationale and mind. To me, emotion clouds judgment, leading to inefficiency. I am not sympathetic, but that doesn’t mean I’m cruel.
It’s one of the things I pride myself on: Being heartless and emotionless.
It does leave me at the end of the day, but I don’t mind. It takes my mind off things, and occupies my time instead of being petty. At the end of the day when my feelings come back, I think to myself, whatever that happened and whoever that you hurt, a good end product/progress justifies it. Mind over matter. When it comes to work, my principal is the process doesn’t matter as much as what the result is.
People who are involved with me, please take note that when I mean business, I don’t play monkey. I trust you enough, don’t waste my time.
These days I feel more vulnerable than most. Listless and bored, I have let my guard down for things I used to be defensive about. Even the minute annoyances have affected me to a greater magnitude than before.
I blame this partially on a rather soul-baring couple of months and keeping an open mind too idle for too long. I think too much about little things, and too little about bigger things. It seems I am going to be comparing extremities in this post, which is apt considering I am feeling the extremes of the emotional spectrum.
At one point, I felt inexplicably depressed. At another, I felt anger that burned hotter than hell itself. On some days I feel jubilant and cheery. On others I feel worrisome and paranoid.
Emotional imbalance, I’d say. Which is uncommon for me because I tend to have extreme control over the things I say and the things I do and the things I feel.
To those I’ve hurt, forgive me
To those I’ve annoyed, tolerate me just for a bit
To those I’ve shut out, please come back
To those who stayed, thank you
To those who love me, I love you too
I think a lot, and these day I think a lot more about being a better person. I don’t want to be so angry, so overbearing, so unnecessarily stressed out anymore. I’ll use more brain and less brawn (not that I had much of it anyway) and deal with issues with more gusto.
Dawn is breaking; A new semester. I cannot be weak, I cannot be vulnerable. I will be strong and confident and strive for righteousness.
When I go,
Tell me you’ll miss me when I go;
Because if you don’t,
It’ll break my heart.
When I’m gone,
Don’t say you miss me when I’m gone;
Because if you do,
It’ll break my heart too.
— J.M. (2017)
I found mine. #hesatreasure
It is the end
The end of the world
Legends of old
The stories they told
Your forefathers and mine
Away their lives pined
People gathered there
On top of the hill
All the ‘I love you’s
Never to chance they lose
Perhaps it is time
The only time
In the darkest hour
And me in your embrace
What would you say?
— J.M. (2017)
Purpose. I suppose this is what many, if not all, of us look for in life. In addition to needing people, needing attention, needing anything at all; We also want to be needed. That’s how the give-and-take scenario works. In an ideal and just world, you give as much as you get, and you get as much as you give. Mutualism.
As beautiful a rose
It would not be
Without the dirt and soil
To nourish and flourish
As wieldy a handle
In the knight’s hand
Without an iron blade
Is not a weapon
As poetic the words
By W. Shakespeare were
Without a pen and its ink
His sheets remain empty
As strong a bond
Such as between atoms
Without trust and support
May it hold or crumble
— J.M. (2017)